Posted on 04/09/2014 5:45:28 AM PDT by Gamecock
When asked to applaud the sinful plans of casual acquaintances, my standard response is: Wow. Why?
And Why? Outward actions are inevitably motivated by an inward condition. Asking why? or Id love to hear how you came to this decision gives the other person the benefit of assuming they have done some thinking. Why? affirms that every person has a whywhether they know it or not. And the answer to why? is where a heart-discussion can begin.
I am not surprised when sinners sin. I dont expect people who are apart from Christ to act as if they were united in love to Him, people who are ignorant of spiritual realities to be wise, or people who are slaves to sin to freely pursue righteousness.
Its really no surprise at all when the woman in Aisle 9 yells at her kids and the college students next door throw a drunken party. It would be remarkable if they did otherwise.
Having been dead myself, I can recognize that pitiful condition when I see it. And I dont berate a corpse for failing to look lively.
But, every so often, someone I know slightlyneighbor, co-worker, fellow grocery-store-shopper, mom at the playgroundactually asks me to cheer for their plans to sin.
Guess what? Im getting an apartment with my boyfriend next week!
My husband and I just arent compatible anymore, and Im filing for divorce. Im excited to get on with my life!
My same-sex partner and I are getting married!
Its obvious the person is looking for congratulations. But I cant do that.
When such statements come from Christian brothers and sistersthose with whom I share professed life in ChristI can, and should, rebuke them in love. But for otherspeople whose spiritual condition I may not even knowits more difficult to know how to respond.
I will not lie. I will not encourage sin. I will not ignore our shared need for Christ.
When asked to applaud the sinful plans of casual acquaintances, my standard response is: Wow. Why?
Wow. I am not surprised that sinful people act like sinners. But I am rightly taken abackgenuinely puzzledwhen someone expresses their intention to run headlong toward misery.
Whether the issue is same-sex marriage, or abortion, or unbiblical divorce, or drunkenness, or failure to attend corporate worship, I know how the world was created to work, and I know that the path chosen by this person does not lead to happiness and peace.
So, I say wow or hmmm or oh. Maybe I simply have a look of concern on my face. In a fallen world, all kinds of foolishness pass for wisdom. And it is right that the gut reaction of the redeemed when faced with intent to sin should be skepticism. Wow.
And Why? Outward actions are inevitably motivated by an inward condition. Asking why? or Id love to hear how you came to this decision gives the other person the benefit of assuming they have done some thinking. Why? affirms that every person has a whywhether they know it or not.
And the answer to why? is where a heart-discussion can begin.
It just feels right.
My therapist suggested it, actually.
Ive really thought about it, and I read some very helpful books.
I dont know what else I can do.
And that is where the Triune God and his all-sufficient Word can come in. Thats the open door to introduce Jesus, the friend for sinners. Not just to fix this one sin, but to fix all of them. Not just to correct one rebellion, but to replace all rebellions with His obedience. Not just to make messed up people nice, but to make dead people alive.
Interesting thoughts.
I can talk to fellow believers when they stumble. But always struggle when talking to the lost. This article is worth some thought, IMHO
In a fallen world, all kinds of foolishness pass for wisdom. And it is right that the gut reaction of the redeemed when faced with intent to sin should be skepticism. Wow. And Why? Outward actions are inevitably motivated by an inward condition. Asking why? or Id love to hear how you came to this decision gives the other person the benefit of assuming they have done some thinking. Why? affirms that every person has a whywhether they know it or not. And the answer to why? is where a heart-discussion can begin.
Thanks for posting this!
Good article. Thanks.
From the author, I get a bit of a sense of, “I thank thee, Lord, that I am not like other men ...”.
However, I do think that, if someone feels they must share their intention of doing something both wrong and foolish, then, “Really? Why?” is a pretty good response. Better than, “Uh, sure ... whatever. Look, a squirrel!”
If Christians wish to understand why people ignore them, re-read the first few paragraphs.
I have no idea what the author is talking about.
And by the fifth paragraph, I really don’t care.
“Wow. Why?”
That’s a great response. Christians need passive aggressive responses to the actions of this world. There once were times when queer sex or living in sin were shocking secrets best not divulged, but now?
Now all one can say is “Wow, why?”
Hmmm. I prefer some scripture.
Might I humbly remind Ms. Hill that she, herself, is a sinner and but for the grace of God she would suffer the consequences of the sins she still commits? She says she was once "dead" herself, but seems to believe herself completely removed from all that sin stuff now. That is not possible while she remains in this world.
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