They have already won. Staying doesn't mean standing up for our values, it means conceding to theirs. Straight boys and religious scoutmasters and sponsors are going to be lightning rods for the perverts. The first time a "gay" kid reports that his imagined sexual orientation is not validated by his troop or scoutmaster there will be civil rights lawyers and federal investigators coming out of the woodwork. No one should subject their children-or their church-to that.
The BSA has mortally wounded itself. Let it wither away and die the death it has chosen.
I’ve listened to parents and our scout master discuss “solutions”. Make every campout a family campout - no parent, no child. No more campouts for the older boys old enough to consider having sex. Only go with the troop that comes from a conservative Christian school and bans gay students, so there are theoretically no gay boys in the troop. No more camping except “day” camp.
Now it’s a choice between leaving and working within a flawed organization.