I meant “that woman” in the video.
The internet can be very useful for making sure you get your sentences in without being interrupted, but it also lends itself to all sorts of missinterpretations from less than clear statements. It’s conversational, but gives the appearence of clearcut statements.
IOW, the reader tends to put too much importance on sentences that were, frankly, not structured very well. Plus it doesn’t give you the other 80% of communication like body language, voice inflection and facial expression.
It’s why I’m careful to come down on anybody for a viewpoint they express until I have strong confidence that I understand where they are coming from.
What video?