Your job is to tell them the Truth. Your job is to call them to repentance and conversion. Your job is to lead them to freedom from sin and to saving Faith in Our Lord Jesus Christ.
Your job is to tell them that two men cannot marry each other. And that two women cannot marry each other.
Your job, Cardinal Dolan, IS TO TELL SELF-SO-CALLED 'GAY' PEOPLE THAT SODOMY IS WRONG. THAT THEY ARE DEDICATING THEMSELVES TO A LIFESTYLE OF SIN. THAT THEY ARE ON A HIGHWAY TO HELL.
If they don't like it, that's their problem.
But you do them no favors, if you don't do your JOB!
Well written.