I doubt if they are trying so hard to be seen ‘good’ in GOD’s eyes; but in their HUSBAND’s - who have the AWESOME power of calling them out or not!
I can tell you, in the last two years of my friends life, she frequenlty worried if her husband would call her name. more troubling was. She had forgotten the name she was given in the endowment ceremony..
I reassured her that her would find her no matter what.