Daily Marriage Tip for November 8, 2012:
Romance: Repeat what works, but not too much. Some spouses love candlelight, flowers, or chocolate. Others love massages, sexy clothing, or words of love. Once you know, do it, BUT, remember that surprises and breaking a pattern can be a turn on too.
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Thursday of the Thirty-First Week in Ordinary Time
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Luke 15: 1-10 Introductory Prayer: Lord God, I believe that you are present here for this moment of prayer. Even if I have not really longed for this time together, I know that you have been waiting for me. As an expression of my gratitude and love, I truly wish to give myself totally to you during this meditation. Petition: Lord, grant me greater zeal for the salvation of souls. 1. You Can Judge a Man by the Company He Keeps: Our Lord took a considerable amount of flak from the Pharisees for taking time to get to know the less respectable crowd. In those days, sinners were marginalized and treated with contempt. Today, attitudes have changed. Folks that were considered sinners back then would now be mainstream; some of them would probably even be celebrities. But one thing is still the same: People still judge others by the company they keep. For better or worse, people are judged by their associations. That brings up a good question. I am a Catholic. I receive the Eucharist frequently. Jesus is spending a lot of time with me. Would people be able to tell that I have been spending time with the Lord? What would they think of Christ and his influence on me? Are the Lords standards reflected in my life? 2. The 99 Safe Sheep: Jesus description of going out to get the sinner is truly consoling. Perhaps this brings up a beautiful memory of how he came to my rescue, when I was one of the wooly ones wandering far from the flock. But thats now a changed scenario. I am in the flock. How do I stay here and keep from wandering off? The Good Shepherd gives us so many tools, but I need to use them. If I slacken in my prayer life and participate with routine and lack of fervor in the sacraments, I may find myself wondering what other pastures may be like. Lets focus on being faithful within the beautiful flock of the Church. 3. Fireworks in Heaven: Returning to the thought about people judging others based on the company they keep, we can easily see why those judgments occur: People that spend time together often start to become like each other, since they share many of the same interests. Jesus reveals in the parable what his driving, passionate interest is: the salvation of the individual soul. There will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance. The Lord is always looking to set off fireworks in heaven with one more conversion. If Im hanging around Jesus enough, Im probably starting to sound like him. If not, am I really spending as much time with him as I think? Am I trying to bring back the lost sheep that I know? Conversation with Christ: Jesus, you lifted up the sinners around you so many of them became saints. Let me soak up the grace of your divine influence so that I will truly reflect in my actions the reality of your work in my soul. Grant me a little portion of the burning desire you had to bring back the lost sheep. Resolution: I will write a letter or email to a friend or relative who has drifted away from the Church, hoping that even a little hello may plant a positive seed. |