This year, Misty spoke to the GCN (Gay Christian Network) conference. I've posted two of her videos below.
By God's grace, the OPC did the right thing by driving the Irons out of their denomination. A clearer rejection of the theology of the "Radical Two Kingdoms" movement might have been more helpful, but the end result was that the Irons were pushed out of the OPC. In 2002 and 2003, I'm not sure a stronger statement would have been possible since many people still thought that "Two Kingdoms" theology was a modern version of the old Southern Presbyterian "Spirituality of the Church" concept and wanted to protect its legitimacy under "Old School" Presbyterian principles. I'm not convinced the outcome would have been the same in every NAPARC denomination, especially if this happened in one of the less conservative presbyteries of those denominations.
http://www.upper-register.com/irons_trial/musingson/chronology_musingson.html
Key quote from Lee Irons: "The documents relating to my trial in the Presbytery and my subsequent appeal to the General Assembly in 2003 have been posted on this site for some time. But the controversy over my view of the Law was only half of our struggle in the Orthodox Presbyterian Church. My wifes struggle to be allowed to keep up her website on homosexuality is the other half. From March 7, 2002 to April 22, 2003 she was under the threat of being formally charged and brought to trial if she did not shut down the website. In the end, charges never were filed against her and she never did shut down her website (www.musingson.com)."
Here's Misty Irons' website, entitled "Musings on Christianity: Homosexuality and the Bible": http://www.musingson.com/
Here's a video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oFZsF1LxmU
Here's another video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LCT5EdsiOc&feature=related
Two comments say it all: "Thank God and to the praise of His glory that people like Misty is being raised up in the mainline churches to testify that Christians can be gay just like" them" and that we gays have a standing in grace that no one and nothing can take it away. Romans 5 : 1,2." Again, "I praise the Lord for Misty's testimony to the gospel of grace in Jesus. More than through her words, her testimony shines forth in her loving actions."
Here's one of many pro-gay bloggers who like Misty Irons:
http://joemoderate.blogspot.com/2008/02/misty-irons-on-gay-lust.html
Key quote: "Remember ridiculously cool Christian blogger Misty Irons? She recently posted a thoughtful entry on her blog analyzing why mainstream Christians are unable or unwilling to consider that gay couples may actually be bound by love. Misty chastises those Christians who dismiss gay affection as nothing more than 'lust' ... Another excellent example of how Mrs. Irons really 'gets it.' She gives me hope that understanding and reconciliation between gays and Christians is a possibility."
This is not just a problem of "other people out there." It's here inside our own conservative Reformed churches, and we need to deal with it.
http://moremusingson.blogspot.com/
Key quote: "Straight, married with three kids, homeschooling, evangelical Christian of the Reformed variety. Okay, now that the scary part is out of the way, see 'More about me' to find out why I support gay marriage in society and oppose it in the church."
Here is a post with some homosexuals arguing that Misty Irons isn't affirming enough of homosexuality (i.e., she's "Side B" with Tony Campolo and similar people who view homosexuality as a result of brokenness, not "Side A" which believes homosexuality is a good creation of God and not a result of brokenness:
http://moremusingson.blogspot.com/2011/07/gcn-conference-2012.html
In her video, Misty points out that "being in the PCA has offered her more freedom to do things" like continuing her pro-gay blogger advocacy.
Key quote by Misty Irons: "It would soon became evident that the whole denomination would divide up according to which side people resonated most strongly with ... The news that an OPC pastor's wife had not only come out in favor of civil same-sex marriage but defended it publicly could not be contained. My article spread to four other internet discussion lists and, I was told, seven other Reformed denominations."
Misty points out with regard to advocates of homosexual civil unions that she "provided a service of making them look like moderates by comparison." We need to beware of the "frog in the kettle" syndrome here.
Clearly this issue is not over; the problem has moved from the OPC to the PCA.