There is no point to going further.
You keep changing your position. Your position is that people are required to do something to be Saved unless they can’t. If they can’t, then God chucks Free Will out the window and decides for them.
And what about all those people who never knew there was a decision to be made? Does God send them to Hell because they didn’t get Saved because they never heard of such a thing?
The Methodists believe that God goes after us and woos us into a relationship with Him. It’s like quasi-Calvinism.