It depends.
This is true about the soft, feminised evangelical churches where all they do it sway to the beat of the drum set while singing love songs to their boyfriend named Jesus.
However, fundamental churches, which eschew that sort of nonsense, don’t seem to have trouble finding real men to fill the pews.
Ummmm...you have no idea what you’re talking about here.
The bias toward one’s own experience is understandable, but c’mon.