You’ve noticed that different-talk phenomenon? When they’re talking to each other, they pray to Mary, Jude, everybody and his sainted uncle. But when talking to us, oh no no no, they’d never do something like that, it isn’t really prayer, etc.
Yep. Check out THIS THREAD to see how fervently Roman Catholics believe Mary to be the "co-Redeemer," contrary to the usual offended posture of "How dare you say we believe such a thing!"