Excellent points, irrespective of the national origin of the parties.
Back before VatII, there used to be many things referred to as “paraliturgical” ceremonies, such as devotions, etc. celebrated in the church. I think the Mass should be the Mass, and people should do other group prayer things in separate services, if that appeals to them. I run the other direction whenever anybody wants to give me a big warm hug and tell me how much the Lord has done for them, but I realize there are people who like that and it’s fine - just not at Mass, please!