Friday, September 09, 2005 Meditation Luke 6:39-42 Ever since Adam pointed the finger at Eve, humans have struggled with the all-too-common tendency to criticize, blame, and judge one another. Since we all struggle at times with being critical of others, lets use todays gospel to examine ourselves and get right with the Lord. Take a sheet of paper and try to answer the following questions as honestly as you can: Am I too critical of others? Are my critical thoughts aimed at a particular group of peoplesuch as my spouse and children, my co-workers, or my friends and neighbors? Do I find myself categorizing others according to their looks, their talents, their intelligence, or their financial situation? Now take a few moments to review your answers, and then continue: Do I use negative humor to raise myself and lower others in my mind? Do I blame others for my problems? Am I hard to please? Do I think my life would be so much easier if certain people would just change their bad habits? Look honestly at your answers and see if the Holy Spirit shows you any ways that you have been pointing out specks in eyes of others, all the while remaining blind to the plank in your own eye. This kind of examination can be very freeing. Rather than causing guilt, an open and honest dialogue with yourself and with the Holy Spirit can help you see how you have wronged a loved one by your critical judgmentsand it can give you great hope in the Spirits promise of transformation. You will find yourself inspired to stop these critical thoughts, and you may even feel led to seek out that person and ask his or her forgiveness. Such an act of humility can bring a world of healing to strained relationships and can restore unity to our homes, communities, and workplaces. You also may go a long way toward freeing the other person to change, because our negative thoughts about others can be like a chain holding them bound in the patterns we are critical of. Jesus, please forgive me for any ways I have been critical and judgmental toward othersespecially those who are closest to me. Teach me to love others as you have loved me. Help me to remove the plank from my own eyes, so that my words will be uplifting and kind to everyone I meet today. 1 Timothy 1:1-2,12-14; Psalm 16:1-2,5,7-8,11 |
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