[bedolido]

J. Daniel Scruggs, 12, had a long document of troubles before he hanged himself in his bedroom closet in January 2002.

[DB]

She may have well been a poor parent but from what I can tell she doesn't deserve to be charged as a criminal. She wouldn’t have been working so hard if she didn’t care. It isn’t like she hasn’t suffered greatly already.

[LurkedLongEnough]

Horribly sad. I wonder, where is Daniel's father now?

[FormerLib]

...Scruggs said she could not get her son to bathe or wear clean clothes.

This just has me completely baffled. How very sad for all concerned.

[Pest]

Whatever happened to the days when a parent of the bullied child would call the parent of the bully to straighten things out?

It also seems like a big problem is that the schools are not really allowed to discipline the bullies.

[AdamSelene235]

"I have a 12-year-old of my own, and if he was to refuse to take a bath and started smelling, there would be little I could do," Norris said.

Behold the modern Socialist Castrati!

[Arthur McGowan]

Abolish schools--problem solved.

[Pan_Yans Wife]

"As a 12-year-old boy, J. Daniel's safeguard's included his mother, his teachers and his guidance counselor, the school nurse, the school administrators, his pediatrician, the school outreach worker, a DCF investigative social worker and a probation officer," the report said.

They should all be tried equally, or not at all!

I feel terribly for the mother, enduring the tragedy of his suicide is amazing, but then these charges seem like cruel and unusual punishment. Her son is dead.

[I still care]

This is one of the most tragic stories I have read on FR. The mother sounds so terribly overwhelmed.

[dbehsman]

"The American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry recommends that parents encourage their bullied children to talk about their problems and let them know what they are not at fault. They should also: ......

Seek help from the child's teacher and school guidance counselor. Find out what programs the school or other schools are implementing to combat bullying."

Total waste of time and energy. Talking to a brick wall is far more productive and helpful. At least with a brick wall, you know that your never going to get anywhere upfront.

"They should not encourage the child to fight back."

Totally, completely dead f***ing wrong! I speak with experience on that one! ALWAYS FIGHT BACK! Damn the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry for even thinking otherwise!

[u-89]

I remember a couple of kids that were tormented badly, horrendously so and it was obviously taking a heavy toll. The school did nothing to help them. Actually they got punished rather than their tormentors. I always felt these poor souls would either soon be institutionalized or grow up to be serial killers - criminally or as scientists for the DOD developing sinisterly lethal weaponry.

[adaven]

They should not encourage the child to fight back.

Bzzzzt! WRONG ANSWER! I will teach my daughters to fight back, and I will start early. I will have them trained professionally in self-defence, and I can't wait for the day I can take them to our local shooting range.

Don't fight back? HAH! What MORONS!

[Stone Mountain]

It appears very likely that this child had a severe mental illness, at least from the descriptions of his behavior. It seems awfully cruel to me to automatically blame the mother unless they have better evidence that she was responsible for his behavior. Many people think they would be able to handle a situation with a mentally ill child but those in the know will tell you it isn't that easy...