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The Conservative Case for Gay Marriage
Time Mag ^ | June 30, 2003 | Andrew Sullivan

Posted on 07/02/2003 7:41:17 AM PDT by upchuck

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The Conservative Case for Gay Marriage


21 posted on 07/02/2003 3:47:25 PM PDT by DannyTN (Note left on my door by a pack of neighborhood dogs.)
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To: gitmo
I think one thing Sullivan doesn't really address is that this is an experiment. Guys are the true sluts. I would be far more comfortable with lesbians honoring their wedding vows than men... well just because they are men.

I think the honus is on gay men. Public lewdness is not tolerable in our culture. People are for more tolerant I think of a quiet conservative homosexual couple, than an in your face hedonist who puts themself out on public display.

So much of "gay culture" is just crap. It is not innate. One does not wake up gay and feel a deep compulsion to dress in drag or with leather and chains. Once gays quit stereotyping themselves, perhaps people will stop stereotyping them as well. Just a thought.

22 posted on 07/02/2003 3:48:18 PM PDT by dogbyte12
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To: gitmo
One of my friends admitted to a group of us that "it" once "twitch" while he was watching Big Time Wrestling.

We were taken back at first. Then we came to our senses and beat the living sh@t out of him and removed his name from our speed dials.
23 posted on 07/02/2003 3:53:06 PM PDT by Bluntpoint (Not there! Yes, there!)
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To: Bluntpoint
Twitched not twitch. But that still would be enough.
24 posted on 07/02/2003 3:54:42 PM PDT by Bluntpoint (Not there! Yes, there!)
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To: LizardQueen
I can't see homos magically succeeding in turning straight people gay.

It happens in prison. It happens to children of homosexual households at a rate nearly 7 times their “3%” population. What do you think a so-called ‘bisexual” is? And sometimes by choice.

25 posted on 07/02/2003 4:09:58 PM PDT by Clint N. Suhks
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To: Bluntpoint
Women wrestling.
26 posted on 07/02/2003 4:10:53 PM PDT by gitmo (I'm sorry. I lost my short-term memory in the '60s. No drugs .. just lost it somewhere.)
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Women with harry backs and awfully large testicles.
27 posted on 07/02/2003 4:15:34 PM PDT by Bluntpoint (Not there! Yes, there!)
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To: Clint N. Suhks
Prison rape is usually more of an act of power/dominance or something they do just because it's the only available sex rather than a true desire for the same sex.

I don't know where you got the stats on children but the ones I've seen are lower than than (21 % of children of gays become gay themselves? Seems high). That said, I still think that gays should refrain from having kids because of possible gender confusion issues and the difficulty of growing up in families so different than normal. It's selfish, to me - they should be thinking of what's best for the kids and growing up with 2 gay parents isn't it, IMHO.

What adult would ever choose to have gay sex if they were never interested in the same sex? I still am not getting how homos are going to turn the entire society gay if not checked. There's not an argument in the world that would convince the straight people I know to go that way - they just aren't interested.

LQ



28 posted on 07/02/2003 4:25:33 PM PDT by LizardQueen
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"There's not an argument in the world that would convince the straight people I know to go that way - they just aren't interested."


Sometimes you just want a guy with whom you can shoot hoops with and then go antiquing.
29 posted on 07/02/2003 4:33:31 PM PDT by Bluntpoint (Not there! Yes, there!)
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To: dogbyte12
Once gays quit stereotyping themselves, perhaps people will stop stereotyping them as well

Your post was great, and I agree with all of it, especially the statement above. It should be required reading for all gay people.

I know several gays that are HORRIFIED by the in-your-face flamer attitude of the Pride Parade type of gays. But when they try and say something about it they get shouted down and called homophobes even though they're gay!! It's ridiculous.

LQ

30 posted on 07/02/2003 5:29:18 PM PDT by LizardQueen
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Prison rape is usually more of an act of power/dominance or something they do just because it's the only available sex rather than a true desire for the same sex.

Prison rape occurs, depending on the prison, at a rate of 14-25% of the population.

A 1982 study of a medium-security prison in California found that 14 percent of inmates had been forced into oral or anal sex. If that figure applies to all jails and penal institutions, about one million males are raped behind bars each year. Wooden, Wayne S., and Parker, Jay. Men Behind Bars. New York: Plenum Press, 1982. The one million figure is based on the fact that about 8.6million males pass through jails and prisons each year, according to the Sourcebook of Criminal Justice Statistics, 1990, Tables 6.33, 6.63, 6.89, and 6.90.

In 1996, Cindy Struckman-Johnson of the University of South Dakota published a survey of the Nebraska prison system showing that almost 1 in 4 inmates had been "pressured or forced to have sexual contact against [their] will."Struckman-Johnson, Cindy, Ph.D., and Struckman-Johnson, David, Ph.D. "Men Pressured and Forced Into Sexual Experience." Archives of Sexual Behavior, Vol. 23, No. 1 (1994), pp 93-114.

Consensual homosexuality on the other hand in prison runs at a rate between 41-70% and I’ve read as high as 78% in the Florida prison systems though I can’t put a finger on that cite at the moment.

In prisons, many males are involved in homosexual sex. Dr. Frank Rundle who …"believes that it's almost universal," involving "almost everybody at least sometime." Another professional gives a 70 percent estimate Rideau, W. and Sinclair, J (1982). Prison: The Sexual Jungle. in Scacco, Jr., Anthony M., Ed… 3-29.

Questionnaire responses from 13- to 17-year-old girls in four all-female and three coed institutions were used to determine rates and causes of institutional homosexuality. Rates were as high in coed as in single-sexed institutions. The overall rates of homosexuality for all seven institutions were 14% for "going with or being married" to another girl, 10% for passionately kissing, 10% for writing love letters, and 7% for having sex, beyond hugging and kissing, with another girl. The data suggest that previous homosexuality, often experienced in other correctional programs, explains much of the variance in institutional homosexuality. LESBIANISM IN FEMALE AND COED CORRECTIONAL INSTITUTIONS, ALICE M. PROPPER, JOURNAL OF HOMOSEXUALITY, 1978, VOL3(3), P265-274.

I don't know where you got the stats on children but the ones I've seen are lower than than (21 % of children of gays become gay themselves? Seems high).

I’ll look up the name of the study if you want, it’s been within the last year, although I may not find the cite for the 20%. Britt Hume interviewed the researcher and asked the question three or four times in a row before she answered, it was very obvious she didn’t want to give up the stat so I’m not sure I’ll find the reference to it.

I still am not getting how homos are going to turn the entire society gay if not checked.

You don’t think that if the culture changes to accept homosexuality without stigma the 20% of children now raised in homosexual households will increase even more? I’m not saying adults can change short of prison or that ALL of society will change and become homosexual but indoctrination at an early age, as this chosen behavior manifests now, will certainly bump the stats up from what it is now.

31 posted on 07/02/2003 10:30:21 PM PDT by Clint N. Suhks
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To: Clint N. Suhks
Are there any stats on how many former prisoners remain gay after release? Maybe I'll see what Google turns up for that.
The prison system has always been a problem that way. I would think that most of the incarcerated would rather be boinking the opposite sex if they had a chance - it's just that they can't, so they use whatever/whoever is available.
You may call that turning homosexual, but to me how they behave once they're released shows if they're actually gay or not, rather just behaving badly while in jail.

I'll Google the child stats. I've only known a few kids from gay parents and they've all ended up straight. The few studies I've seen have been very biased to one side or the other, depending on who sponsored the study (pro- or anti- gay).

My point about preferences is this: for most straight people (myself included), preference is hardwired in there and has been there since childhood. Everyone else on the planet could turn gay but I'd still like men. Some on this thread seem to think this doesn't count for much, and is easily changeable when exposed to the whims of society. I don't agree with that position.

Thanks for the info, I'll look some of it up when I get back from vaca (headed out of town today for a long weekend). Have a good Fourth!

LQ
32 posted on 07/03/2003 4:37:00 AM PDT by LizardQueen
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