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Is Clay (Aiken) gay? You know we asked -- An Advocate Exclusive
The Advocate ^ | May 22, 2003 | Alonso Duralde

Posted on 05/28/2003 8:20:50 AM PDT by Mister Magoo

Is Clay gay? You know we asked

Advocate.com was on the scene in Los Angeles for the American Idol finale and couldn’t resist asking runner-up Clay Aiken backstage if he knew how many of his gay fans hope that he’s family too.

By Alonso Duralde

An Advocate.com exclusive posted May 22, 2003

OK, so when Fox offered me press credentials to attend the big climactic results show of the second season of American Idol, I figured I could write something funny for Advocate.com about fashion (season 1 finalist Christina Christian carried a small dog with her down the red carpet) or bad singing (did you hear season 2 finalist Rickey Smith butcher Earth, Wind & Fire during the medley? Ouch) or Paula Abdul (guess what, Miss Thing, I grew up wanting to be a critic). But all that got pushed aside after I stood up at the press conference after the show wrapped and asked runner-up Clay Aiken the big question: “A lot of your fan base thinks you’re gay. Any comment on that?”

First, a little background for those who haven’t been watching the show. Aiken has gotten a great deal of press over the course of the show because of the big voice that emanates from his scrawny body. Throughout American Idol, Aiken has had his own Extreme Makeover, changing everything from his hair (fluffed out to cover up his car door ears) to the removal of his nerdy spectacles. While teen girls and middle-aged moms went all swoony for Aiken, the gaydars of queer viewers nationwide were going off. Loudly. Here’s a performer, we thought, who can’t open his mouth without littering the Idol stage with hairpins. The fluttering eyelids; the high-pitched chuckle; the angry-diva faces pulled whenever Simon Cowell criticized him; the hammy, Sam Harris-meets-Mandy Patinkin show-tune vocalizing—just about everything Clay does reads as gay. I’m not saying that I know whether he’s queer or not, but if he isn’t, he’s a very gay-acting heterosexual.

Clay meets the press

My boyfriend talks about Aiken’s goal to become a special-needs teacher as one that screams out as a career track often pursued by gay men. And my boyfriend also points out that there’s a definite subset of closeted Christian males in their 20s (having been one himself) who have so successfully repressed their sexuality that they don’t even know that they’re really gay. And that brand of asexuality is also a hallmark of Aiken’s singing. For all his technical proficiency, there’s no feeling that he’s ever experienced the painful love he likes to sing about. There’s no heartbreak in that voice, and there’s certainly no sex. If there were really such a magazine as Non-Threatening Boy (a favorite of The Simpsons’ Lisa), Aiken would be the Crush of the Year.

Jim Verraros and Ejay Day

So anyway, back to Wednesday’s American Idol finale and the press conference. After Clay told a gushing female reporter that he’s looking for a girl who’s “not too primped and permed and curled,” I asked my question.

He looked right at me. Then, without a word, he looked at another reporter and called on him. Mind you,up to this point almost no reporters had been called on—it was one of those yell-out-your-question-or-forget-it situations. But Clay was definitely not going to answer my question, not even to give me some “I love all my fans” or “It doesn’t matter what people think, as long as they buy my album” bromides. I got nothing from him. I got the brush-off. I got a freeze-out worthy of Joan Crawford.

Ruben and Clay

The generous interpretation of this is that he thought I was from the National Enquirer or some other supermarket tabloid, out to dig up dirt. Because after all, we all know the worst thing you can say about someone is that they’re gay, right? And it’s not like American Idol is dying to have an openly gay singer on the show: The Advocate left a million messages about Jim Verraros on Fox publicity voice mail during his stint on the program, but he ultimately came out in this magazine only after Idol was over. So what if British Pop Idol winner Will Young’s album topped the U.K. charts after he came out of the closet? Homosexuality is a subject the Idol-makers would just as soon avoid, apparently.

As to the not-so-generous interpretation of Aiken’s silence, I leave that for readers to figure out.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Front Page News; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: clay; gay; homosexual; idol; mycousinknowsclay
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1 posted on 05/28/2003 8:20:50 AM PDT by Mister Magoo
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To: Mister Magoo
*sigh*

He isn't gay.

2 posted on 05/28/2003 8:23:20 AM PDT by RMDupree (HHD: Deep roots are not reached by the frost..)
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To: Mister Magoo
If he isn't he needs to go to defeminization classes.
3 posted on 05/28/2003 8:26:08 AM PDT by Conspiracy Guy (When you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there.)
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To: RMDupree
He isn't gay.

Do you know first hand, or just a generalization? My daughter wants to know

4 posted on 05/28/2003 8:26:41 AM PDT by Zavien Doombringer (Do you have to be Tolerant to the Intolerant?)
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To: Zavien Doombringer; Howlin
Personally, I knew a few guys like him that aren't gay, but give that impression.

As for Clay specifically, ask Howlin. Her cousin knows him first hand.

5 posted on 05/28/2003 8:28:09 AM PDT by RMDupree (HHD: Deep roots are not reached by the frost..)
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To: Mister Magoo
He looked right at me. Then, without a word, he looked at another reporter and called on him.

It would have been as easy to have said (with a big toothy grin)"No, I am not, and thank you for asking...Next question"

6 posted on 05/28/2003 8:29:09 AM PDT by Zavien Doombringer (Do you have to be Tolerant to the Intolerant?)
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To: RMDupree
*sigh*

As though this was the single most important piece of information we need to find out about Clay.

7 posted on 05/28/2003 8:31:13 AM PDT by cincinnati65
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To: Mister Magoo
Ruh roh! You've done it now.
This thread should be interesting, let me get something to munch on...


8 posted on 05/28/2003 8:32:42 AM PDT by Constitution Day
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To: Mister Magoo
Not that there's anything wrong with that.
9 posted on 05/28/2003 8:32:55 AM PDT by Laura Earl (It's the ASPARTAME!!!!)
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To: Mister Magoo
Gay:
a : happily excited : MERRY b : keenly alive and exuberant : having or inducing high spirits

He probably is the above.

Queer:
a : differing in some odd way from what is usual or normal b (1) : ECCENTRIC, UNCONVENTIONAL

Who Knows....
10 posted on 05/28/2003 8:33:12 AM PDT by RRWCC (Even under a good king, a subject is still a subject.)
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To: cincinnati65
The fixation that people have with with sex life is troubling. What does it have to do with his voice?
11 posted on 05/28/2003 8:34:11 AM PDT by RMDupree (HHD: Deep roots are not reached by the frost..)
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To: cincinnati65
As though this was the single most important piece of information we need to find out about Clay.


right! who the hell REALLY cares?
12 posted on 05/28/2003 8:36:49 AM PDT by bonfire
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To: Mister Magoo; RMDupree
There's another thread today about a seminarian that says Jesus was gay.

The problem is the gay agenda says they're "normal." But then they have to go around making everyhing else gay (Clay, Jesus, Tinky Winky, the color purple, the rainbow...) so that they can "fit in"...

13 posted on 05/28/2003 8:49:47 AM PDT by Corin Stormhands (http://wardsmythe.crimsonblog.com)
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To: Mister Magoo
Not necessarily a Clay Aiken "fan", I do admire the kid's voice (I allowed my daughter to try and vote for him for two hours without getting through...) he seems to have a wonderful, down-home personality and he IS from NC. I can also see where he could be annoyingly talkative at times.

But it was interesting this morning when I stopped by the breakfast carry-out joint this morning and he was being interviewed on TV by, of all people, Jeff Gordon. Hmmmm.......

14 posted on 05/28/2003 8:50:44 AM PDT by Hatteras (The Thundering Herd Of Turtles ROCK!)
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To: Corin Stormhands
Yup. The same group of people who want to say that only gay people are "cool".

It's all about recruiting teens into the "lifestyle".

15 posted on 05/28/2003 8:51:23 AM PDT by RMDupree (HHD: Deep roots are not reached by the frost..)
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To: Zavien Doombringer
Do you know first hand, or just a generalization? My daughter wants to know.

I have no direct knowledge, but for what it's worth, he and Ruben are both hardcore Christians who held prayer circles backstage before every show. So if Clay IS gay - and IMHO that's a giant if - I would guess he's extremely repressed.

16 posted on 05/28/2003 8:52:47 AM PDT by Timesink
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To: Mister Magoo
Hollywood and Vine is going to be renamed 'Bob Hope Square' on Thursday (for his 100th birthday).
17 posted on 05/28/2003 8:52:55 AM PDT by ewing
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To: Zavien Doombringer
First hand, he is not gay.
18 posted on 05/28/2003 8:53:30 AM PDT by Howlin
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To: RMDupree
"The fixation that people have with with sex life is troubling."

Must be that there's a little bit of Freud in us all...
19 posted on 05/28/2003 8:54:10 AM PDT by Registered (America, Love it or Leave it)
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To: Mister Magoo
Now we all know exactly what we knew before this article. Nothing.
20 posted on 05/28/2003 8:54:20 AM PDT by fish hawk
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