Bill Bennett bashed on samesex marriage site. (things that make you go hmmmmm)

Bennett, Gays and the Truth by Andrew Sullivan © 1998, Andrew Sullivan Partners Task Force for Gay & Lesbian Couples Box 9685 Seattle, WA 98109-0685 206-935-1206 demian@buddybuddy.com www.buddybuddy.com Washington is the capital of awkward alliances, but few are more revealing than Bill Bennett’s recent espousal of the work of one Paul Cameron. In a This Week appearance, and then in the august pages of the Weekly Standard, Bennett has openly declared that research shows that the average life-span for a male homosexual in America is forty-three years. In the Standard, Bennett was so thrilled and shocked by this discovery that he repeated it in italics: “Forty-three.” The source for this information, as Bennett subsequently revealed, is a researcher named Paul Cameron. Loyal The New Republic readers will fondly remember this curious character (see Queer Science, by Mark Pietrzyk, October 3, 1994). As Pietrzyk reported, Cameron was expelled by the American Psychological Association in 1983 for misrepresenting the findings of others and engaging in dubious research techniques. Among Cameron’s “findings” have been that 52 percent of male heterosexuals have shoplifted and 12 percent have either attempted murder or actually done it. Over the years he has also argued that gay men are responsible for up to one half of all child-abuse (despite making up maybe two percent of the population), that they are ten-to-twenty times more likely to molest children than heterosexuals, and that fully half of all sex-murderers are homosexuals. One of Cameron’s “studies” included 41 gay men out of a total sample of 4,340 adults. Another was based on interviews with 34 serial killers. One of his “pamphlets” is illustrated by a photograph of an adult male arm dragging a small boy into a public rest room. This is what a former secretary of education thinks is social science.

Bennett’s favorite Cameron statistic — the average life-span of 43 for all gay men — is based on obituaries from gay newspapers during the height of the AIDS epidemic. Useful for some things, that plague! But even then, the statistic is misleading. As any student of these papers knows, the obit sections — which scarcely existed before AIDS — are primarily ways to commemorate openly gay people who have died early deaths. (An indication of this is that the same study found that the average age of gay men who died of causes other than AIDS was 42!) These neighborhood papers — with very limited pages — in no way attempt to record all homosexual deaths, and rarely do so. In fact, there’s no data base, in a still-closeted world, that could. The statistic, in other words, is based on a skewed sample of a subset of homosexuals in a grotesquely atypical period. It’s about as reliable as basing a statistical survey of death rates in the general population from people admitted to emergency rooms.

But this, in some respects, is hardly revealing. There have always been hate-filled cranks out there. What’s revealing is that Bennett clearly couldn’t care less about the source of his data. It’s a great sound-bite, the kind of thing that sticks in the mind, something that, even when it’s exposed, carries a useful political punch. It doesn’t really matter whether it comes from the equivalent of the Ku Klux Klan, or whether even a casual observer could see it was bogus. In the letters section in the Standard, Bennett cites not only Cameron for his early death point, but another man, this time with a medical degree: Jeffrey Satinover. For a book I’m writing, I happen to have read Satinover’s work. He believes all gay men are pathological and compulsive; that the most effective policy for them is a fundamentalist religious conversion; and that the Renaissance “could have just as easily been called The Great Death,” since it killed off “Judaeo-Christianity’s” hegemony in favor of modern science.

I have no idea whether Bill Bennett regrets the Renaissance, but I’m interested in his facile use of “facts.” Just as typical was Bennett’s casual reference on This Week to “the great continuing interest of the homosexual male community into [sic] recruiting children into its ranks.” Note the generalization. With Bennett, one has gotten used to the idea that an avatar of virtue can blithely accuse a whole group of people of wanting to commit the most heinous crime against innocents with no evidence whatsoever. It was the device once used by vicious anti-Semites. Why shouldn’t it be used by today’s conservatives? And his “plain evidence” for this in the Standard were quotes by gay leaders condemning pedophilia! Go figure.

No, what’s truly revealing is what he infers from his recitation of a gay male life-span of 43 years. Does he argue that this shocking “statistic” makes it more essential for gay men to practise safe sex? No: Bennett seems uninterested in that debate in so far as it pertains to gay men (and has opposed safe-sex education for gay teens). Does he argue that gay men should be monogamous to cut down HIV transmission? Well, not if it means implementing any measures to foster gay monogamy, such as the right to marry or even domestic partnership. Does he argue that the social costs of AIDS make it even more vital to finance HIV research? Funny, Bennett hasn’t exactly been vocal on that one.

No, the only use Bennett makes of this statistic is that it helps prove that “homosexuality” is bad and should therefore be “discouraged,” or, rather that, “if you’re a homosexual male in this country, it takes 30 years off your life.” And what does he mean by this formulation? Does he believe that gay men choose their orientation and therefore need to be encouraged to make a heterosexual choice? No, he doesn’t. On This Week, he said: “I think the best state-of-the-art science right now is the belief that some people are hard-wired this way.” His argument, rather, is that, if we don’t continue to marginalize homosexuals, then a few “wavering,” bisexual men might be tempted to “choose” homosexuality, and therefore be more likely to die off at the tender age of “43.” Or in his words: “Some people make the choice, and there are a lot of people in the middle. If there are a lot of people in the middle, if there are a lot of waverers, we should be sending signals of what society needs to prefer. And it needs to prefer heterosexuality.”

So let’s get this straight, so to speak. What Bennett is really saying is that one group of citizens should be publicly stigmatized, denied the right to marry, legally fired at will from their jobs, expelled from the military despite exemplary service, and thrown to the dogs of an epidemic without any social incentives to rescue them, merely pour decourager les autres. Has Bennett thought for a moment, I wonder, about the morality of this little piece of social engineering? Has his conscience even twitched a little at the thought of using some people’s lives (and with AIDS, this is not a metaphor) to adjust the social signals sent to others? One is led to wonder, in fact, if Bennett isn’t actually in favor of gay promiscuity, because it’s a far more useful didactic tool for him than the discomfiting vision of stable, responsible homosexual couples.

Imagine if Bennett had made the same argument about African-Americans. In that case, there are, in fact, reliable statistics that show that the life-span for blacks is significantly lower than that of whites. Imagine if Bennett got on television and declared this to be a scandal, but subsequently opposed any measures to alleviate it. Imagine, indeed, if he used that statistic to defend the right of someone not to hire a black person because one could reasonably infer that a black person was more likely to get sick. Imagine, in the most apposite case, if he declared that, because of this statistic, black people should not be allowed to marry white people, because it would import into the rest of society patterns of life-threatening behavior that need to be discouraged.

Well, the truth is: you can’t imagine. Because all those statements would be regarded as prima facie evidence of racism, and Bennett would instantly lose any credibility he once had. But with gay men and women, such statements are regarded as completely banal, and Bennett actually gains points among conservatives for voicing them. He will argue — with a straight face — that he is not against civil rights for homosexuals, he just wants to tell them what is good for them. He believes, as he wrote in the Standard, that gay men and lesbians are entitled to rights “owed all Americans as Americans.”

But that does not, apparently, include the right to serve one’s country, a right granted to African-Americans as a symbolic mark of their citizenship after the Civil War, and to heterosexual women and blacks equally this century. And it does not include the right not to be fired from one’s job merely because one is gay, regardless of one’s abilities. And it does not include the right not to be imprisoned because of private, consensual sex. And it does not include the right of mothers to the custody of their own children. And it does not include the right to visit a spouse of many years who is dying in an intensive care room. And it does not, critically, include the right to marry, a right declared by our Supreme Court to be one of the “basic civil rights of man,” vested, again according to the Court, in the Declaration of Independence, prior to the Bill of Rights and more fundamental even than the right to vote, a right guaranteed to murderers and prisoners and rapists and dead-beat dads and non-citizens, but not to gay and lesbian Americans for something that even Bennett concedes is “hard-wired” into their identity. “Rights owed all Americans as Americans?” The truth is Bennett, consciously or unconsciously, believes the word “Americans” does not include gay men and women. It’s clarifying to hear him say it.

He will also argue that he is not demonizing people, he is demonizing behavior. But if he means by that behavior promiscuity, does he not have a moral and intellectual obligation to propose something to tackle it? Would he think, for example, that mere lecturing would be enough for heterosexual men, if they too had no right to marry their loved one? What, I wonder, would he think would happen among straights if marriage didn’t exist, if, indeed, domestic partnership didn’t exist, if their relationships were accorded no public recognition and acknowledgment, their children no legal rights to their parents, their commitment to each other no moral or social support? From Bennett’s writings, I have no doubt what he thinks would happen: social chaos. But the incentives Bennett believes are essential for one segment of the society are to be ruled out of bounds for another. There is only one possible explanation for this. It is that Bennett considers gay men and women so beneath and beyond the concern of real society that it is incumbent upon him merely to echo the stigmas that perpetuate their isolation. And if that isn’t close to a definition of bigotry, then I don’t know what is.

Wednesday, May 07, 2003, 12:04 A.M. Pacific

Letters to the editor

VIRTUE'S CURSE

Former drug czar gets a dose of his own medicine

Editor, The Times:

I was delighted to read that former drug czar, "virtue-crat" and general busybody William Bennett was finally caught being human. Revelations that he has been gambling (and losing) obscene amounts of money over the years confirms the glass house/stones theory ("Ex-Cabinet official bets on far more than virtue," Times, News, May 3).

He has been pointing his finger in the face of America, lecturing and haranguing us for the better part of two decades now, about how he thinks a "virtuous" person behaves.

His grotesque stint as a "drug czar" now seems even more like burlesque. There was Bennett, overfed, addicted to cigarettes, gambling and admitted user of a popular, but physically addictive tranquilizer (alcohol), telling us how dangerous and wicked pot is.

Seeing his face on TV, trying to justify his multimillion-dollar gambling habit as "legal," Bennett now wears the look of so many other "sinners" that Bennett has targeted with his moral bombsight.
Paul Wilson, Seattle

When men grant they err

Bill Bennett is not just a big-time gambling loser; he also lied about his losses, and has engaged in rampant denial of his outrageous behavior. This is not just a story about Bennett, whose hypocritical pontifications have blighted the American landscape for decades, this is a story about every self-righteous public figure who arrogates to himself the position of moral arbiter.

It is a creepy indication of the condition of the American soul and psyche that millions of our fellow citizens listen to the likes of Newt Gingrich, Pat Robertson, Jerry Falwell and dozens of other famous hypocrites and liars.

No wonder the election of George W. Bush, which only happened because of the illegal disenfranchisement of thousands of Florida voters, is widely accepted: The USA has no moral compass, and the greedy are in charge.
Jeremy Smithson, Seattle

Forbearance ceases

Bill Bennett's gambling problem astounds me not so much for the level of hypocrisy involved, but for the simple numbers involved.

If we assume that he spent 40 hours per week, 52 weeks per year — gambling over the past eight years, he would have had to have lost $480 per hour to reach the $8 million that he is reported to have gambled away (please pull out your calculator and verify this for yourself).

Is it really possible to pump that much money into slot/video poker machines in an hour? Does he do anything in his free time besides gamble? How much does this guy make per hour? Does he deserve it/need it?

Wake up, folks. Our system is way, way out of whack.
Chris Matthiessen, Bothell

The "$8 million in losses" is a phoney figure, as anyone who has any experience with gambling well knows. For instance, last night I had my weekly nickel-dime poker game -- limited stakes, limited raises. We usually play high-low games to encourage most players to stay in the game.
At the end of the evening I had lost $45. A range of winning or losing no more than $100 is normal for all the players in this game. However, if ONLY THE MONEY I HAD LOST in every hand I did not win last night was totaled up, I "lost" a total of about $1,000!!! (That is an average loss of $12 in the hands I did not win, times about 90 hands that I did not win in the course of the evening.)
Anyone who knows anything about gambling would recognize that the $8 million figure is phoney -- and exactly why it is phoney. But lies repeated often enough develop the appearance of truth.

Congressman Billybob

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