[wastoute]

Perverts want to know "was she...?" What the hell are they thinking? Let's see now, everyone else she was captured with was EXECUTED, you morons. What the heck do you think with, a**holes?

[thetruckster]

I agree. I had one friend who survived Vietnam. Many years ago, I asked him how he felt about being there. He very succinctly told me that he had to go, he did what he did and managed to come back alive, and now, he never wanted to mention it again. Ever.

Some people deal with it that way, and we should respect that instead of letting any morbid or macabre side take us over for the sake of satisfying our own curiosity. That would be very poor manners.