She couldn't say "what" was ruined, even though you gave her time and she tried to think of something to say.
But then again, liberal vaalues and "Lifetime Tevelvision For Women" has taaught them to emote rather than think. SO she can yell, "you ruined my life" pretty much at anyone for anything.
PS: Is it a Lifetime cult thing that Meredith Baxter Burnie has to appear once an hour?
It could be worse. They could divert away from their present staple of "Bad Men and the Women Who Loved Them" and return to their original staple of "Where's My baby? I Want My Baby! Give Me Back My Baby!!!"