You are right of course. It is time to make a few plans ourselves isn't it? Given the concern being shown for the citizens of the USofA, we are very much on our own. If you don't have a preplanned place to meet up with other family members, might want to make one. Chart different routes to it, have supplies on hand and loaded or ready to load. Those with a prepared mind have a better chance of survival if they survive the initial attack that is.
It's hard to get everyone rounded up with you at work and the kids at school. F.E.M.A. may evacuate the kids thinking that if mom and dad do show up later to collect them, F.E.M.A. can confiscate what supplies and medicines the parents have set aside, for the "greater good" don't you know. Check with your childs school to see what plans, if any, are prepared, who prepared them, and where the kids will be evacuated to, etc. Only one parent should go there to collect the kiddos, and what goods you have should be stached with the parent waiting for the other's return.
There are literally a million things to consider. It may be time to begin to consider them I'm thinkin.
America has ZERO nuclear war/fallout plans...zero..zip..nadda...for the population. Now Russia on the other hand.......yeah they do. They have been stocking up on wheat and killing cattle like crazy for storage...gotta wonder why, huh?