2) most of these rules are so idiotic they are not posted or publicized for fear that their incredible absurdity would draw negative attention. Who is going to think that they would have to tell their 6 yr olds that they can't play games they have played for most of their short lives.
In Sayreville, it would have been a tough call what wins out, PC correctness for "zero tolerance" or, hmmmm, PC correctness for "racial tolerance". My guess, having lived in that God-forsaken liberal hole for five years, is that race would have beaten out zero tolerance, and the kids would at most, received a talking to.