You have to understand the true Islamics are a very humble people, they do not draw attention to their efforts. I didn't even know that this guy ran the Mosque until he was killed and I saw his picture in the paper; since he was usually sweeping or picking up trash I honestly thought the guy was the janitor. They also feel a lot of shame over the radical element and how they have tied themselves to Islam. These people put tons of effort into fighting against the bad guys, but because of their faiths strict rules against violence that isn't directly in self defense, and their rules against seeking power and glory, their efforts and news about their efforts are forcibly limited. These people will not violate their religion to punish others for violating the religion, in their eyes it would make them just as bad. They work in small groups, they donate money to numerous efforts against the terrorists, they instruct all those that will listen in the true meaning of the Koran and how these terrorists pervert Allah's word.
They're not on your radar because they don't want the fame, you either have to know where to look or be lucky enough to stumble on them (the hour or two of conversations I had with this guy, during the same era that our Marine barracks were car bombed, completely changed my understanding of the situation, and I think the fact that he was assassinated shows he wasn't BSing me). But they damn sure are on the radar of the terrorists, and they've been paying the price for a long time. In my book, if their efforts are good enough to get them killed they're plenty good enough for my humble praise.
Non fanatical muslims and their supporters might consider how many Jews died being humble before those who wrested Israel from a political impasse chose to act.
(Note that I don not pass jusgement on your support, I've talked with former enemy soldiers and airmen whom I liked and respected more than some of my peers. Steriotyping is a trap.)
I believe that we deserved Bill Clinton because we allowed him to take office and to keep it for eight years, whatever the causes or the arguements we were not enough to remove him. In a similar manner I believe that those moderate Muslims who quietly and ineffectually oppose the Bin Ladens of this world, just like those who act "progressive" while quietly cheering them on, deserve their fates entwined with those of the fanatics.