Surprised?
Buggering is a rite of passage in boys public schools they say
This is hard for me to imagine. I can more understand Males being the abuser but a female with an 11 year old is hard to grasp unless he was being forced to do ..ahem..certain things.
The whole family seems nutty. Diana certainly had problems.
That said, there are a lot of deranged people in positions of power so anything is possible.