I would encourage you to talk with your son about his plans for the future. There are many occupations that don’t require a degree, from truck driving to mechanic and other “trades,” to business person, writer and other occupations where you show your stuff in another way. Some occupations, such as engineer and medical doctor, require degrees (and possibly the specialized knowledge encompassed by those degrees). So, the degree is part of the price you pay. If I’m correct in reading what you wrote, you son has tremendous potential, but maybe isn’t motivated to go down a pre-defined route. He may also be discovering that he is smarter than other people older than he is, and in certain positions of authority. Again, if I am correct, you should see if you can help your son use his gifts to advantage, and not let them become his downfall. I have seen maybe a dozen persons who let their gifts undo them. Hey, if I’m out to lunch, I apologize for taking your time.
Thoughtful words. My son quit over a decade ago and has made a nice life for someone under 30 in our economy. Having grown up in multiple cultures, he has a pretty good grasp on life, where he’s going, and is aware he has the option to pursue just about anything he desires, as nothing is impossible with God and He can make a way where there is no way.