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New York Times op-ed says liberals need to admit that single parent families are large 'drivers' of childhood poverty - and that youngsters whose parents are married
Daily Mail ^ | Sep 14, 2023 | Harriet Alexander

Posted on 09/14/2023 5:16:56 AM PDT by where's_the_Outrage?

New York Times columnist Nicholas Kristof on Wednesday published an op-ed entitled: 'The One Privilege Liberals Ignore'

Kristof referenced a new book out next week by Melissa S. Kearney, an economist at the University of Maryland, entitled: 'The Two-Parent Privilege'

Kristof and Kearney argue that liberals have a 'blind spot' about two-parent families, and see supporting the institution as racist and divisive

American liberals need to accept that single-parent families are more likely to raise children in poverty, an influential New York Times columnist has argued.

Nick Kristof said the fact was taboo among progressives, who worried that they would be labelled racist for admitting it.

Black families are statistically more likely than white, Hispanic or Asian to be single-parent: less than half of black children were living with two married parents in 2020,

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


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KEYWORDS: family; marriage; poverty; singleparent
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'One advantage of a two-parent family is simply a function of arithmetic: Two parents can earn two incomes, meaning less poverty,' Kristof wrote.

Both parents working usually means the kid(s) raised by a 3rd party such as day care instead of being home.

We live off my income, it's amazing to me when we visit my daughter's friends the amount of toys and stuff they have. I thought I was spoiling my angel, but I'm in the minor leagues compared to others. Seems to me that both parents working is another way that children are being indoctrinated into.
1 posted on 09/14/2023 5:16:56 AM PDT by where's_the_Outrage?
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

Getting fathers out of the house was (and is) a keystone goal amongst progressives. One of those things you’ll pry out of their cold, dead fingers.


2 posted on 09/14/2023 5:19:14 AM PDT by Kriggerel ("All great truths are hard and bitter, but lies... are sweeter than wild honey" (Ragnar Redbeard))
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

i made it work that my wife could stay home for the first 5 years of my son’s life... he is better off for it and their relationship is great. we lived sparingly and when he started school, she went back to work. parttime


3 posted on 09/14/2023 5:22:18 AM PDT by teeman8r (Armageddon won't be pretty, but it's not like it's the end of the world or something )
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

Article:

“less than half of black children were living with two married parents in 2020”

This is hilarious sugar coating.

The real number that matters:

“Almost 70 percent of black children are born to single mothers.”

https://www.city-journal.org/article/the-black-family-40-years-of-lies


4 posted on 09/14/2023 5:27:49 AM PDT by cgbg ("Creative minds have always been known to survive any kind of bad training." Anna Freud.)
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"childhood poverty"

Nonsense term. All kids depend on someone else, or do they think kids should be working 6 figure jobs?

The problem is when an addict parent spends money on drugs over food.

5 posted on 09/14/2023 5:30:15 AM PDT by fruser1
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To: where's_the_Outrage?
Data has always borne out that children from single parent families are much more likely to do badly in school, drop out before graduation, get into trouble with the law, bear children out of wedlock, become victims of domestic violence or else engage in domestic violence, do drugs, become alcoholics, etc. However, no one is EVER encouraged to recognize these facts. All the while, the US taxpayer is constantly robbed to provide ‘benefits’ and assistance for these kids, both as children and as the misfit, unemployed and unemployable adults they inevitably become.

We as a nation, are probably NOW supporting the 4th and 5th generation of these home grown losers.

6 posted on 09/14/2023 5:31:40 AM PDT by SMARTY (“Liberalism is totalitarianism with a human face.” Thomas Sowell)
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

When I asked her to marry me, she asked “can I stay home with the kids?” When I said yes, so did she.

Four very well adjusted independent homeschooled kids later.

Was it tough? Yep

Did we drive old cars and have small houses? Yep

Did we have lots of stuff? Nope

Even though I don’t have to, I rarely buy clothes that aren’t on the clearance rack. Just something I’m used to.


7 posted on 09/14/2023 5:31:55 AM PDT by cyclotic (It's a great time to live in America. It's like the collapse of the Roman Empire except with wi-fi)
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To: cgbg

Blame Margret Mead and “Coming of Age in Samoa”. She was very young and naive. Too many strong opinions that were not questioned until 2 Aussie researchers came along decades later. Still anthropologists give her royal credit for promoting the field.

Archeology. Never heard of it but now I know lots. We can all thank Indiana Jones.


8 posted on 09/14/2023 5:34:24 AM PDT by DIRTYSECRET (e allowed )
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To: fruser1

I grew up on a farm
...all the 8 kids worked herding cows, feeding horses, haying, gardening raising chickens...this writer has a city slickers point of view...she’s never been on a farm
.she’s an ignoramus


9 posted on 09/14/2023 5:36:15 AM PDT by bunkerhill7 (Don't shoot until you see the whites of their lies)
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

Has there ever been a more appropriate time than this to answer “No shit Sherlock!”

Mean old conservatives being “judgy”


10 posted on 09/14/2023 5:45:27 AM PDT by strider44
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

From a DM blurb to this article: The One Privilege Liberals Ignore

When discussing racial relations or differences, privilege has come to mean something white people are keeping from black people.

Marriage is not a privilege; marriage comes from a decision.

It is not a privilege to grow up with both your parents who are married to each other; it is a decision of the parents.

Black parents used to marry at nearly the same rate as white parents and they are free to do so now.


11 posted on 09/14/2023 5:46:43 AM PDT by Chicory
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To: cyclotic

We homeschooled 8, before it was cool. Co-operatively with other families. All well-adjusted, 8 degrees (on their own) and a 9th one soon....2 - Summa Cum Laude’s, one all-A’s “With Distinction” at a major US University (liberal), half well-off financially, 6 grandkids.

All while I ran a business and was teaching elder in church....amazing wife......who, before we married, didn’t want any children......

All the grace of God.....


12 posted on 09/14/2023 5:51:02 AM PDT by Arlis
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Black parents used to marry at nearly the same rate as white parents and they are free to do so now.

The difference between then and now is the welfare state. The government incentivizes single motherhood, children are a cash cow to unwed mothers and the more you have the more money they bring in. Why would an 18 year old girl who can’t read the ink on her diploma want to take a $7.25/hr job at Burger King when she can sit home, watch TV, spit out kids and bring in $100k a year?

13 posted on 09/14/2023 5:56:42 AM PDT by GaryCrow
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To: cgbg

When Moynihan wrote his treatise on the demise of the black family, the fatherless percentage was in the 20’s. Now the number is in the 70’s, but the white percentage is in the 20’s. 20% of the white population is a lot bigger population and problem than 70% of the black population.

It’s not just the music whites have adopted: but it’s also a dysfunctional life style. Diversity’s influence by this measure is destructive.


14 posted on 09/14/2023 6:07:58 AM PDT by JeanLM
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

They believe in Hillary’s “it takes a village” and not what has worked for thousands of years, a “two parent family”. Of course Hillary wants a messed up village she can control while the traditional family wants what’s best for everyone to continue the human race…..


15 posted on 09/14/2023 6:14:18 AM PDT by Lockbox (politicians, they all seemed like game show hosts to me.... Sting)
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

You are so right.

Your child is blessed to have in these times two parents who put her welfare first.

Breaks my heart to see so many little ones put in the care of strangers.


16 posted on 09/14/2023 6:19:34 AM PDT by Bigg Red (Trump will be sworn in under a shower of confetti made from the tattered remains of the Rat Party.)
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The NYSlimes admits this?
Pigs are flying by my office-sunroom’s windows...


17 posted on 09/14/2023 6:33:21 AM PDT by Carriage Hill (A society grows great when old men plant trees, in whose shade they know they will never sit.)
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

LBJ murdered the two parent black family with welfare.

Leftists can never admit it was evil.


18 posted on 09/14/2023 6:39:23 AM PDT by Uncle Miltie ("The News” is a fake narrative promulgated by the Deep State Uniparty to control you and enrich them)
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

Leftists, not liberals. “Liberal” implies acceptance, and leftists are the exact opposite of that. One either agrees with them or they are to be disposed and destroyed. More gaslighting, which has been going on for a very long time.


19 posted on 09/14/2023 6:43:06 AM PDT by GrumpyOldGuy
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To: Lockbox

well, I think it’s BOTH — a child needs a mother+father married and living together AND it needs a welcoming community where it lives and grows up and there are well-meaning neighbors, relatives etc.


20 posted on 09/14/2023 6:50:53 AM PDT by Cronos (I identify as an ambulance, my pronounces are wee/woo)
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