I try my best to vote Conservative Red. Like you, my hub, served in the USN for 20 years. 58-78.
I enlisted when I couldn't drink, vote, marry, get a loan, own a gun (I got my DL on leave after Basic) and learned all about Viet Nam from returnees who drew no punches and talked freely with fellow soldiers.
I knew more in 1968/9 than anyone I could talk to . . . JUST like Nam vets.
They sent me to Korea instead of in country . . . . I was pretty scrambled when it was over (for me)