I find women who use sex for validation to be odd. It is not an achievement of any kind to find a willing male even for the obese. The achievement is to find somebody willing to stick around after a one night stand, which ain’t gonna happen. Perhaps I am old fashioned, I have never engaged in one night stands with a few exceptions on drunken international trips when I was in my early 20s, but in the real world, a woman who would try to sleep with me on a first date is a huuuuuuuge turn off, no matter how “hot” she is externally.
“but in the real world, a woman who would try to sleep with me on a first date is a huuuuuuuge turn off, no matter how “hot” she is externally.”
Must be hard to fit all those $100 bills in your diamond wallet.
Women are the gatekeepers of sex.
Men are the gatekeepers of commitment.
A gate that opens for everyone is a shitty gate.