I dont think she realized what her claim about a private ceremony was going to do
Not to mention how it would hack people off that they spent that much money on a wedding that wasn’t even legal by Church standards.
I saw the clip where she tells Oprah about the private ceremony. It comes across as a lie. Harry is not even paying much attention to it and probably wondering why she’s even saying such nonsense. Meanwhile, that comment about the big ceremony being “for the world.” Seriously? She is quite full of herself.
I doubt very much you or I could have wandered into St. George's Chapel on the day of the supposed real ceremony to object to this farce.