What’s wrong with “wife as a homemaker”?
If there are children then that is the only acceptable thing as long as they are in school.
Yep.
I’m not saying there is anything wrong with it. My wife is a homemaker and we are thankful she can do it.
I’m saying that I don’t think it is a cultural white paradigm. In the 50s? Sure. But now, it is the exception in urban and suburban areas.