I agree but that’s not what’s happening for many young men....who at some point decide to go another route.
Heck plenty of kids don’t follw that list to get ahead...many aren’t interested in the lifestyle of marriage and kids..and many people in general will divorce or have.
What you speak of are values....so what it it that young men today value? I don’t think many would agree with the marriage family route. And it’s highly likely their parents dn’t value these either..
Then we are screwed.