I have seen many fights between friends and their wives over gambling away the rent money. I like playing blackjack but I can't bet on sports. Too difficult.
That’s exactly what it is. I had a friend that couldn’t do anything without asking “wanna bet?”. It would be a round of golf, watching Monday Night Football, anything...
I could see it made everything more intense for him - but it also made everything a constant high/low experience. One moment he wins and is on a high, the next he’s in a really bad mood because of a loss.
It was obvious to me that this is really unhealthy and something to stay away from.