Read this book. Don't read it alone in the house when nobody else is there.
See the chapter about the "transgendered" and the demonic.
Understand what you and we are up against.
And it ain't flesh and blood.
I think that is the key to regaining our power given by Jesus Christ. Somehow we have let ourselves fall into the trap of hating certain types of people. This alienated them, hurts them and really takes our power. Men hung and pierced our Savior, he asked for their forgiveness. Ephesians 6. Our real enemy.