Notice there’s nothing to women about coveting another woman’s husband. Nothing addressed to women at all about their rights, or property. Even causing a woman to have a miscarriage... do you pay her? No, you pay her husband. You damaged his property, see. Woman is subject to man: “He shall rule over you.” It’s as plain as “right to bear arms.” Men like to have power over women, and the only question is the extent to which they exercise it.
Coveting goes both ways.
Women aren’t allowed to covet. We have to keep all the commandments as do men and children. The very idea.
Yes as heads of households the men are addressed. Unless a commandment is specific to a woman. There are a handful commandments directed just to women and just to children and those are lined out as being for them.