you and another billion women from forever. Graduated 1980. Was groped by Professor’s, extraneous cops,, men , in general untilI met my husband. I never said a word to anyone, I was so humiliated. Hubby knew, even though he’s a peanut, he stood unlike a Giant. Few workplace incidents after , but Hubby would have none of it. Made a few discreet phone calls.
Zip. Baddabining Badda Boom.
I would never have filed a report..some of those men were the husbands of my Parent’s “aquaintances” ... Second husbands etc, wives were dear friends of my Mom”s.
I only told my oldest Brother (not good) and my Parents who seemlessy disconnected us all from that behavior and those men.
I cannot even now fathom filing a Police Report and I am working on Old Lady.
I’m and old lady too and when young I had one rape, while my husband was out getting drunk when he had promised to be home that evening, and 2 attempted rapes by a law student and a lawyer. I reported the actual rape, but did not even consider telling anyONE about the other two incidents.