I know conservative women who kept their maiden name when they married.
I regret taking my husband’s surname. Getting new ID cards, ie., social security and driver’s license was a pain in the neck.
Not only that, you have to prove you changed your name for the rest of your life.
“Getting new ID cards, ie., social security and driver’s license was a pain in the neck.”
If that is too much bother for you, them the marriage thing is going to just kill you.
I know several who have also kept their maiden name, but I know none at all who use hyphens...