That's a huge problem with this, plus ticked off spouses.
The thing that infuriates me is the deliberate duplicity of these people claiming “false accusation are rare, 4-10%”. If you look HALF are “unresolved”. So to be fair one would have to assume the unresolved break like the rest (anyone play Bridge?) so an HONEST statement would have to be “8-20%” OF RESOLVED accusations are false. Truth is the first casualty in War.