Take note. Real victims don’t play the victim card. When you are a victim of someone else, it means they not only had power over you then, it means they have power over you now. Real victims don’t let the perpetrators have power over them now. Real victims fight hard to survive an ordeal, and then put it behind them as best as they can. They move on. They don’t want to stay victims; they want to be survivors. Real victims don’t want to continue to live in the hell of a bad past experience.
Victims can go on to have a good life, but they NEVER get over it.