>One of my best male friends did not have sex until he was married. He put Christ first and waited. I have never faulted him for his decision to wait.
My niece and her husband both were virgins when they married. She was 20 and her husband was 21 years old. They were raised Christian and to them it was where they wanted to be before marriage. They have been happily married for 12 years and have 3 adorable children.
My niece was homeschooled and was never put in a position of pressure from predatory males. Her husband said he was put upon by aggressive females at the public school he attended. It was difficult to resist, but he decided not to take advantage because he was a Christian and knew that these girls were looked on as trophy meat by their classmates. He wound up befriending a few of them. Some thought he was gay. He thought that was funny and sad at the same time.
A few years after my niece and he were married they ran into a female friend of his from high school at a social function. She took my niece aside and said my niece’s husband was the best guy she had ever known. It brought tears to my niece’s eyes and mine later when I heard the story.
Lovely story thanks.
Last night when they saw that he had proof in the form of planners from 1982, the left mocked him for being some kind of nerd loser. I’m sure they’ll do the same with this. I guess for liberals, the idea that a guy could just be decent is so hard to fathom (after all Weinstein was a rock star until this summer) - that this is their only response.
Lovely story, thank you for sharing it. It takes a great deal of courage and fortitude these days to remain pure.