[meowmeow]

And sometimes the surviving spouse surprises everyone and goes on to live longer than anyone expected

I didn't expect my grandmother to last long after grandfather passed - they were married 72 years. But she learned to use the remote control, discovered cable TV and she just turned 99 and has decided to go for 100.

[CGASMIA68]

Yup all excellent points.

All “depends” on how dependent one was on the other.