plenty of research shows that white people tend to find conversations about race to be more uncomfortable and anxiety-provoking than black people do.
Is there racism from whites against blacks? Yes but its not ubiquitous and these days fellow whites would be ostracised for saying offensive things. I have been more times around blacks who were negative or aversive to whites lately than the reverse. Why would anyone want ass kissing? Its patronization.
We used to be able to joke with each other more than today. I miss us all getting along.
The pendulum is swinging hard in the non-PC direction.
Soon you’ll be able to say in public that racism against blacks is justified by the crime rate.