Surprise, surprise, surprise -- this results in women being used and treated like disposable sex objects, and many of them don't like it.
Here's a clue: if the results stink, maybe the premises are wrong. Maybe men and women aren't alike "except for plumbing". Maybe our sexual behavior evolved, not to amuse us, but to propagate the species, and maybe propagating the species places profoundly different demands on women and men. Maybe that means that men and women have a very different approach to, and understanding of, sex.
And this should be blatantly obvious to anyone with an ounce of brains, but the feminist ideologues who rule our culture and especially our universities don't have even that.
Here's the brutal reality. Men want sex. Women want Alpha males to commit to them. Women give sex (but only to the most desirable high-status men they can get). Alpha males accept the sex, then disappoint the women by not committing.
Here's the reality, ladies: in a promiscuous environment, yes you CAN get a desirable man to go out with you. But only if you offer no-strings sex. He's not going to commit to YOU, if there are a dozen other women willing to replace you in his informal harem.
In the old system, the "patriarchy" which women despised, it was different. Patriarchy does not mean "rule by men". It means "rule by FATHERS", which is a very different thing. Fathers used to control who got to court their daughters, and used to restrict access to men who were likely to marry them and support them. This upset girls, because so many exciting cads were excluded, but served to maintain social stability.
A corollary to all that drives both the push for “choice” and “AIDS research”.
There are lots of people out there who want to engage in wanton sexual promiscuity without any concern about adverse consequences.
You are exactly right.
That is illustrated by “Grace” even though she doesn’t realize it. She tried to behave in a manner that she assumed men do about sex. She didn’t get the emotional satisfaction that her woman centered personality, obviously unbeknownst to her, expected.
She blamed her lack of understanding of her nature on him, for not understanding her nature.
Her “tears on the way home” are of self disgust over the lack of emotional bonding that she is denying herself with her unwomanly behavior.