[Jeff Chandler]

Some of my other preferences were normal weight, long hair, traditional gender role values, being soft and being kind.

Those sound reasonable but most women don't wear their hair long very far into their 30s.

[doosee]

Murphy is probably like the guy in a movie long ago, I think Lady in the Red Dress. He pursues another guys wife and finally is ready to bed her down in a hotel room. The husband shows up and the guy ends up out on a narrow window ledge in bitter cold, buck naked. He thinks to himself out loud, I am going through this for a piece of a$$. Lot of truth in that one statement.