a buddys wife left after he lost his “big” job. But he never recovered, was always waiting for another “big” job. So he made no $$ waiting for his ship to come in.
You have to get up off your couch at some point instead of wallowing in your own crap. Get a job, man!
Hell, I could get an entry level job at McDonalds tomorrow and in six months, I'll be running the place and on my way to Regional manager. That's how successful people have to think.