my kids are 15 and 17 , the older, the boy is the nicest sweetheart you could ever hope for, always nice, always helping people, daughter is hell on wheels, mean, nasty, loud, disrespectful... I am not aware of how or if they were raised any different, same parents, same home, same life... but so, very, different.
One switched at birth?
Your daughter sounds like many teenagers — of both genders — especially when they are with their parents. (I’ll wager you’ve been stunned to hear people tell you how well mannered your daughter is, and you’ve wondered whom they are talking about!) Your daughter surely must be nothing like the girl who has been arrested for this murder. Assuming this girl is guilty of the crime, we’re talking about a 16 year old white girl who appears to be middle class who took a machete to stranger with sufficient force to kill him. This is pure evil, akin to ISIS.