I don’t see how my post was legalistic, unless regarding normal, natural, healthy sexual design as the norm, is some sort of bigoted imposition.
I didn’t mean your post. I just mean there is a lot of legalism read into the bible that simply is not there. Sex is a good example of that. My perspective is this: When a man and woman marry, they are free from sin, guilt or condemnation when they pleasure each other. If they do things to ensure it does not end in pregnancy, I don’t see anything in the bible that would even suggest that would be some sort of sin.