“That’s between you and your wife, and not between you, your wife”
Well DUHA...
The Duha prayer is the voluntary, Islamic prayer between the obligatory Islamic prayers, Fajr and Dhuhr.
The point is, the woman claimed it would be outrageous for men to have to get their wives' permission for a vas. I agree, it would be outrageous, and it does happen.
But aside from permission, which is one thing, no partner in what I consider a decent marriage would undertake this decision if his/her spouse was against it.
Regardless of my opinion, it isn't the business of anyone outside the marriage.