Posted on 01/14/2017 5:49:05 AM PST by Crucial
Good point, I stand corrected! I’m a woman and I thought that Crucial was too. If you’re the opposite sex, get a second person in there with you or use the write up method where you will not be alone with the person.
“I refuse to turn on the water works to try to manipulate men.”
Where were you 20-25 years ago? What I had to deal with was not just the “water works”. She was out for blood. Mine or hers, it didn’t seem to matter. Hers would have been a suicide that was well-deserved.
Women aren't bothered by a man's past : they think that if a man has had other women, that means that he's worth pursuing, and if she lands him, then she must be really hot, because she beat all those other women.
The problem is that feminism was designed to destroy the nuclear family: the methods used, were to persuade women that they were "unhappy" (Gloria Steinem was an upper-middle-class red diaper baby).
Sadly, slutdom has not made women happy: but rather than let go of their "empowerment" they are doubling down on stupid, *and* blaming men for their own poor choices.
Even the *MOST* successful pickup artists admit that they only manage to go from a conversation, to sex, with at most 2% - 3% of the women they approach, even when pedal-to-the-medal escalation among women at bars and nightclubs, who are there to get picked up, is what they're doing.
In the meantime, the dating sites say (for example, the OK Cupid experiment) that women get a LOT more dating attention than men.
So no, the problem isn't dastardly men running through the ranks of pristine maidens and wantonly defiling them.
The problem is a lot of the women who used to be chaste, giving it up for the bad boys and then demanding to be treated like a virgin after the fact.
I am ignorant. I'll even admit stupid, in this case, if you will explain it to me.
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