Beware a broad brush. Some of the denizens here at politically conservative FR are morally reprehensible and are happy to demonstrate it. Some others are spiritually alive and (more-or-less) obedient to the Word and the Spirit. There is only one Place that only contains the latter, and it sure isn’t FR.
I try not to broad-brush, but it creeps up on a person! You start to wonder if every man you meet is a priapic monster.
Can’t people just be people? Can’t you be a merchant, a customer, a plumber, a person with a broken washer, a committee member, a neighbor ... without a constant obsession with who wants to have sex with whom?