You’re not piling on, I’m sure that’s all true. I think we’re talking apples and oranges. I’m saying that she handled herself with great dignity given the unexpected horror she underwent. Has nothing to do with her lifestyle (or theirs). At that time, she handled herself with amazing dignity.
OK; I’ll give you that. But I’ll call it style over substance, since how she appeared and how she projected her image was so important to her.