My wife of 20 years decided she didn’t want to be married any more. This was 19 years ago. She lives in an old motorhome in a trailer park in Arizona that I can only describe as similar to the one in Raising Arizona.
She never remarried because, at my IT income levels, she’ll get a good SS monthly check when the time comes.
Did you get the “I love you but not in love with you anymore”? That seems to be a boilerplate line with women, mine used it It’s all good now, ex-wife remarried, so no alimony anymore and I am dating a smoking hot blonde who treats me like a king and has her own life and money.