I stopped going to targeaaa, when they decided that I couldn't carry in their crappy store. There are many low cost box stores that welcome customers with legal guns and I don't go anywhere {if I have a choice} unarmed. Since you can't carry on a plane, I drive, and I don't give a fat rat's ass about various state laws that don't recognize the Second Amendment.
I would never pull my pistol unless a life was in danger and then I would shoot to kill. If that happens and I'm in a state that will arrest me, well then it will be lawyer time and the results will follow.